We all want to feel a part of something,
merge with something or someone,
a beloved.....Nature....our idea of God....a group......an activity......music or...
our hero.
  
The 'thing or 'one' that we want to merge with is a reflection of the very true self that we are, as we are told we are all made in the image of God.

But to experience this first hand is to 'know' God, or to become one with God.

If you don’t like the word God then substitute 'Nature' 'Higher Self or Intelligent matter or whatever you like because it doesn’t really make any difference.

It’s the glue that holds it all together,

it is the self effulgent light energy that comprises everything you are and experience in your everyday life.
 
That self is far more beautiful and worthy of our devotion than any other thing, the self includes that thing anyway.

Putting that self first means that we feel secure and nourished
and therefore have more to share with others
and kindness and flowing-ness becomes our way of doing things naturally

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The seemingly scary thing we call Death is just the soul and personality passing from this solid-seeming illusion we call Reality, to another more refined illusion or after-life, sometimes mistakenly called Heaven. Although the after-life is a pretty great place if your conscience isn’t too burdened. A bit of a holiday camp really! Real Heaven is a state of consciousness, not a place. It is absolutely possible therefore to also experience heaven here on Earth, via simple meditation, formally seated and meditation in action.

In truth your loved one has NOT really disappeared, but only to your physical eyes. They still are there, but existing in a new and more perfect body, that looks pretty much like the one they had on earth, without the obvious defects. A finer and young version, although in dreams they may appear still old, that is just to reassure you that it is them.

Don’t worry if it takes a little while to be able to experience contact from your loved one, sometimes the devastating storms of grief and any unresolved issues may act as a cloud around you, and make it difficult for them to show you they are there. Just be patient with yourself.

 In dreams you can still meet them, and if you allow yourself to, you can sense their presence. This may take a little practice, but is possible for anyone, no matter if they are ‘that way inclined’ or not.

Wailing and crying out, are a natural reaction to such a great loss, if you don’t do that, you are going to be in deep trouble psychologically and it could affect your health.

It is completely healthy and correct to express grief, the process which usually contains a period of healthy anger, takes on average 18 months to come through the worst of the fog. Bursting into tears for the silliest of reasons is completely normal.

Seeing your loved one laid out in the funeral parlour if possible REALLY helps, as I found out when my husband died two years ago.

Just seeing the shell of their body all peaceful, their familiar face in repose and their hands folded on their chest is a moving experience. And it can help the grief process, especially if you saw them while they were dying or immediately after, when their appearance may have been traumatic for you.

It helps you to say goodbye to the physical (although I stress you are NOT saying goodbye actually to THEM, but there old ‘overcoat’ of their physical vehicle.)

When you love someone....how can there possibly be real separation, it is illusory separation. For in truly loving another being, in an unselfish way, you become One with their soul, or higher self.

Mortal love is a very pale but lovely reflection of the Love we can feel for the power that created us.

And to the degree that we love the Higher Power, Creator, God, Higher Self, Self-Effulgent Light or whatever you like to call it......to that degree we merge with that perfect Source in Bliss, Peace and Fulfilment, while still going about our daily business, and at the moment of our passing from this world.

The best way we can honour our loved one is to decide to live our life as fully and as joyfully as we possibly can from now on.

Constantly making that simple decision to be ‘in the moment’ where love reigns supreme and there is no separation.
Love and Blessings from
Nina,Ayesha and Slow Bull

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Post Title. 02/23/2011
 
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Heaven on Earth 01/05/2011
 
Earth is my Heaven, I am in paradise, beauty and love is all around me. Body is painful and weak, but I am so grateful to have it. Devotion to my Creator is the greatest feeling I can feel when working, resting or playing. Heaven is here right now with me, in my heart and all around me. I rest happily in the arms of my Beloved. In Light and Love Nina xxx
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Post Title. 02/28/2010
 
  Ayesha says

CONGRATULATIONS TO PARENTS

Hello dear ones....if you have children then something to consider is that, even if you think that it is so difficult bringing them up in the World as it is. Even if you think things are going drastically wrong and you are not doing a good enough job.

STOP and consider that actually you are bringing your children up in the Darkest Age in ALL history (the Kali Yuga as the Hindu’s call it ) so as far as the angels are concerned you are most likely doing GREAT.

Ok...so it does not seem that way, but if we could see the overview that the angels and spirit people see, then we would be only too aware of the dark forces that are swirling around our children. But the brave and sometimes desperate efforts of many social workers, probation officers, teachers and ESPECIALLY parents are despite appearances, are working. Their light spreads out around our children as a protective cloak of Light helping and strengthening them and protecting them from the dark  hoards ( legendary but very real and pretty scary invisible entities) and also all the more obvious material dangers.

And so what ! if they swear a too much, don’t SEEM to care (they do really) and resort to the occasional spliff or drinking binge. Maybe it’s not what we hoped for our kids, but then did we seriously know what they were going to be faced with? But here it is an apparently ‘Godless’ age full of all sorts of confusion and chaos. economic disaster, ecological disaster, destruction of the family unit etc.

  Nothing we could have done would have completely prepared them for this !!!!

But they are coping, developing new skills and coping strategies we never knew they would need...some of the more sensitive ones are having mini and sometimes major psychological problems and breakdowns,  and most come out the other side so much stronger.

The dear ones that don’t make it go into the heavenly spirit realm (even if they take their own life!), are especially blessed and cared for by the Angels and their loving ancestors and the prayers of those left behind.

In fact the most POWERFUL force in the universe to combat the dark forces and the  outer manifestations such as the drug barons etc is......and this is going to surprise you......the loving prayers of parents and grannies, grandpa’s, aunties and friends.

These ‘prayers’ may be uttered silently without any knowledge of spiritual matters, without any formality or embellishment. But if that thought is sincere and there is some element of trust in a Higher Power then the Angels will listen and they will make sure that your strength and sincerity combines with theirs and will become immediately effective. You may not see immeadiate results, but persevere and you will.

So do not be too hard on them, or yourselves...you are doing great, keep ‘trucking’ as you say.

So.... Grannies and Granpa’s....KNOW YOUR DIVINE POWER, AND USE IT, Light is more powerful than Darkness... in the end Darkness must evaporate, have no fear for your children.

Blessings, Love and Light

Ayesha, a humble servant of the Light
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Post Title. 02/26/2010
 
Well.....here goes I am almost ready to start blogging in ernest, but it is now late at night so I will start another time when the muse is upon me,...nina
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